First of all I would like to say thank you to everyone for responding.....
I have noticed that usually the same people respond to my posts, I need to talk to people and get it off my chest which is my I write on here, responses are also comforting. I am sorry to those who I annoy. I'm just a worried mother. Now for the update:
I went to see a dietitian today, she said my daughter is slow for her height and weight but she is "Chunky" and no bones are showing. She also said I put in a lot of effort and offer a lot of food. ( I think if she had my issue she would also) so she told me to offer food every 2 hours and just look at the food groups and try something at different meals (brekkie, snack, lunch, snack etc)
She also pointed out that I cannot force her to eat & that she won't starve herself.....don't know how far that will go as she doesn't eat. Today she's had nothing except milk and yogurt.
She doesn't need to eat a lot also I was advised because she is small.
I did take quiet a bit in from the appointment.
She also told me to go to a speech pathologist. Which is my next stop also.
First I need to go to a new dr and then get a referral.....ill go public as a speech therapist was close to $300.