Arghh..This is the bane of my current existence. I'm a fairly recently separated mum of 3 and until then was more SAHM than worked (worked couple days a week). My children love sport and have always participated in after school activities. As they get older they practice at a higher level which means more training, and more involvement for parents. Obviously they want to continue, but to support their activities (and feed them lol) I need to work more, which in turn means I can't get them's a vicious circle. I rely heavily on other team mates parents, which I hate. I have also had to massively reduce my own sporting - community involvement. No real answer for you, but I feel your pain!!!