Dh and I have 2 babies already, both required firtility assistance because I don't ovulate. When we had baby number 2, I felt like I was done. I even shuddered at the thought of having anymore. I hated the thought of it. But since he has started sleeping better, I'm getting clunky as hell and my husband has always wanted 3. I'm so confused. I'd love another baby but am I being silly? Everyone of our family believe we shouldn't have any more because I wasn't coping at all with baby number 2 when we brought him home. I suffered major pnd for months.
I guess I'm scared because we have no support. But there are plenty of others that do it without support? We both have family that says "we will be there when you need us" but when you call anon them, there's noone there.