I make lists and schedule EVERYTHING! Even naps are put into my diary as are simple things like washing my hair.
I make FB events for everything dh and I have to attend or do. That way it turns up on both our phones and in his case he gets informed even tho he might be away when it was booked it.
Food is planned every fortnight and grocery shopping done then. Then I only pick up milk/eggs/fruit in the middle.
I have a schedule of what chores need to be done on what day. I make a list of jobs to do every day the night before for the day itself. And I HAVE to do what I have listed. I was up till midnight last night catching up on chores as I was out during the day. Everyday I do the dishes, a load of laundry to wash/put away, meal prep, general tidy up and mop the playroom. Then I have specific weekly jobs Ie Mondays is ironing and vacuuming. Tuesday is bathrooms and changing towels. Wednesday is paperwork/bills. Ie payday Wednesday is Bill night. I pay all bills online and do our banking. The alt Wednesday I do paperwork and file everything that arrives in that fortnight. Thursday is batch baking. Friday is sewing/mending if required and bathrooms. Saturday I change all sheets every alt weekend and Sunday I cook up 2x meals for the freezer/week.