We have lunch or dinner with my mum, brother and sister. Our family is not really close, so we don't have 20+ people attending. We all do our own thing. Dp family all live in Vic so we won't be celebrating with them unfortunately. It's also dp birthday on Christmas day so if we have Christmas lunch, we would have birthday dinner and so on Pretty much one half of the day is Christmas (apart from morning when kids wake up and open presents) and the other half is birthday!