My husband has had a history of getting drunk and smsing his female co workers. In fact things were extremely messy for a while there with him lieing to me and telling his co workers I was controlling.
The stopped about 3 years ago. I started to gain his trust again. Life was good.
At the start of last year he started a new job and everything seemed just fine, he reassured me he wants to keep a professional relationship etc with everyone.
About 3 months ago I noticed things that raised alarm bells. Firstly was my birthday. He asked his co worker female to buy my present for me. I did not like that at all. As this was a new girl and one of the first things he told me was the she was very attractive and very good at her job.
Secondly i put our 3 year old son on the phone the other day and he passed the phone to one of his female coworkers. Again, i saw this as unprofessional and raised alarm bells in me.
He went out to his work party and one of the female work co workers called him a soft **** to his face. He is her boss, she would not have said it if he these was not a large around of joking around going on in the work place. Another co worker sms him at 12am saying she threw up in the cab on the way home. Now all these women have boyfriends. One is notorious for sleeping around and getting drunk and needing to be 'saved'
I raised these censers with him and his response was that he has showed the women pics of me on his computer and they both think I'm very attractive. I was so embarrassed as he somehow got his hands on some selfies I took ( selfies are embarrassing!!)
I am 7 months pregnant. I am furious, it's all adding up quickly again. Am I over reacting? honest perspectives please?
at home is a nice husband and a great dad... I just see old work habits slipping back or at least I am fearing this.