@Minib what about mixed feeding? I give ds 150-200 formula a day and then mixed express breast milk and breastfeed so who knows how much he's getting. Lately the early morning and first morning feed is purely breastfeed as he feeds well and I have lots of milk. Then as the day goes on if he gets 4 let downs I give him 60 ml formula top up (sometimes he doesn't finish) and late at night I express and do 80/60 breastmilk and formula. But I'm still demand feeding. I just can't get him down again and I don't want to play then eat. I read somewhere newborns can't overeat? Ds drinks the bottle quite slowly and refuses when he's full so I'm hoping it's ok. Tonight he only took 90ml and stopped. I will see on Friday's weigh in.
Being at my mums ds no longer self soothes at night. We used to get 100% self soothe at night m. Oh well we will just have to retrain. He's using dummy to soothe now. I hope we can take that away eventually too. I think I'm ok with cio now that ds is almost 3 months. Wait and see when i go home how he is.