@Minib - 120ml is awesome! Is that after a feed? In any case you shouldn't need top up anymore with that kind of volume. I only get that now. I have a feeling mines the wrong size too. But I didn't know they make different sizes. I have a spectra breast pump and j think mine is too big for my nipples but not sure.
Bub is 9 weeks on Friday. He had a terrible day today. Wouldn't feed properly on the boobs kept falling asleep or fussing or crying which meant he didn't eat enough and slept short spurts which made him more tired and less effective in sucking and more grumpy. Horrible day! I refused to give him bottle tho. I'm exhausted.
Completely understand about being reluctant to start self soothing but if I could go back I would start that as early as possible. As long as Bub is full, dry and burped with no other health issues I would try not to rock in my arms to sleep. My mum started the self soothing at 4 weeks but it was already a little too late. It's harder for us now to teach him. But also understand you being reluctant to do it with her cos she's young and you are still building trust etc.