Help I'm so upset, So today marks one year since my husband and I were married, it was the best day of my life( besides my sons birth)
This morning I got up and said happy anniversary and gave him my gift ( tickets to a band we love) it's not that today he forgot it was our anniversary it's the fact he chose not to do anything at all, it makes me feel worthless and unappreciated.
We have been together for 12 years and things have really changed, I love him like no other but I feel like he is too busy for me, he is a great person and a fantastic daddy but just ****house when it comes to being a good partner, a card or a bunch of flowers, a box of choccies even would not have been hard.
He throws money around though when it comes to his mates and family spending out on lavish gifts etc, just last week he spent $400 on God knows what at a bucks party, yet he has forgotten my birthday and Mother's Day 2 years running.
Today I spoke up and told him how I felt, i told him that I can't help my feelings but can't control his actions, I had organised mum to look after our little one earlier in the day in hopes he had planned something....I'm currently at home and he is out with his mates 😢
Feeling tired of being second best, is this normal am I being unreasonable?