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    Hi Hubbers,
    I am sitting on my bed and there is so much confusion in my mind, heart and life.your thoughts would be really appreciated.
    I married my good friend 8 years ago,moved from overseas settled here in Australia.Started my career from nothing but now in a very good stable position career wise and financially too.Hubby never wanted kids but still we went ahead with my pregnancy.Now within all these 8 years we have actually moved away from each other,no love or intimacy in the relation.I miss being loved but i think there is nothing left in the realtion.What would you do in my situation having a 6 year old child in life.I think i would repent if i stayed on but not happy in this realtion either.??????

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    Well what does your husband say when you talk to him about how you are feeling?

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    He is in same boat...

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    Quote Originally Posted by disco86 View Post
    He is in same boat...

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    Does your DH want to fix the relationship? Do you want to fix it? Have you spoken about this?
    Long term relationships are hard work and both of you have to be willing to put the work into your relationship. Have you spoken to him about how you are truly feeling? Has he told you how he feels?

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    It is good for you both to mentally visit what drew you to one another in the first place. Talk about it and what you liked and loved about it each other.

    Having kids changes things and there are just things you can't do anymore.

    If you want to make it work it takes two. It takes time and effort. It can be well worth the effort.

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