So my DF brother is getting married in feb. They were meant to get married a year or so a go but she found another guy in another country but then they called it off and SIL stayed with my DFs brother.
The thing is, they live in another country, which we will have just been home to visit, exactly one month after we leave, we would have to fly back for this wedding. When we booked our flights home for Xmas, they had not informed us they had re set the date.
DF and his brother are not particularly close and we have very little to do with them. DF also doesn't believe they should be getting married due to her previous behaviour (among other things)
Then add in that they expect gifts, but you also have to pay for your own meal and drinks and the reception..
DF doesn't want to go, but his brother is getting super annoyed at us
Would you go?
Would you pay another $1500 (in flights) one month after you had just visited, then pay for a gift and your own meal?
I don't mind either way, but it's his family, his choice. Just wondering what others would do ☺️