@Maxwellsmum so sorry to hear your also going through a lot, i hope your body cooperates but maybe a d n c will be good for the body. Its horrrible so many losses lately in this thread. Totally agree a bfn is kinda ive been through the no beartbeat n it sux.....
@woof5105 Just try not to over think it. Try to stay busy and remain positive but realistic. Honestly the clinics are not always right and the best thing you can do right now for your baby is to try to stay as calm as you can. I googled it heaps when I was going through it the other week when my HCG numbers were low and there are a lot of succesful stories out there of ladies who start of slowly and are given lower chances for whatever reasons but they do go on to have perfectly healthy babies. Good luck. ✨
Thank you I was quite literally in shock it sucks looking at the screen and seeing a big black empty sack then the lady on reception asked me if I wanted the ultrasound photos and when I started shaking and crying and told her no she was quite shocked as she obviously had no idea of what had happened in the scan room.
@woof & @Maxwellsmum I'm so sorry to hear what you 2 are going through at the moment. This all sucks. Sending you at big hug each
@Annerley I find out tomorrow morning when my transfer is depending on how the embies are looking. They have me tentatively booked in at 12 tomorrow just in case but have said it will most likely be day 5 so Wednesday. Goodluck with your 1.5 day wait, you have been so patient with your cycle! Wishing you that bfp
@woof5105 @Maxwellsmum I have been off the grid from posting since my bfn, but felt I needed to give support to you both. Im so sorry. I tend to agree about bfn over what you are both going through. I have have one sook & now moving on. I still have hope for you @woof5105 with my son I had a beta of 25 at 4wks preg. Numbers werent crash hot, but he made it to 41 wks & now 8yrs old. I will say extra prayers for you.
Thank you to everyone that has reached out on here. Its a supportive group and now Im in limbo & wont get another shot at the title till February due to clinic closure & a million women wanting to start a cycle in Jan. With no frosties, I have to start all over again. Im 39 in Feb, so I hope they are alot more aggressive next cycle. 2 eggs was a joke. No one can sell the "it only takes one", to me. Im too old for that!
By the time I start again no one from here will be around. 😕
Best wishes to @Tanej78 @Annerley I am thinking of you. @mrsthomo hope you are going well..xx.
Found out from my clinic my embies are still growing well do I can do a 5 day transfer which will be Wednesday
@ woof and maxwells mum. I feel for you both! This is too hard sometimes. Sending you some strength. @Billie2 were you on Luveris last cycle? I got 4 eggs on cycle 3 without Luveris and 15 on cycle 4 with Luveris. Might be worth investigating. Xx
Thank you for all of the support ladies. Really appreciate it.
Am currently at home trying to relax as I wait for a callback from the clinic.
My cervix has been very low since a few days after transfer but in the past day it has dropped really really low and is very swollen and just doesn't feel right. Pessaries were quite difficult last night and today so now I'm terrified it's a cervical ectopic. Very rare so am really hoping that's not the case.
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