Hi ladies, have any of you had lower back pain before EPU? It's just come on really bad in the last few days, to the point where I can't get out of bed on my own. I haven't done anything that could cause it, any chance my big and bloaty ovaries could be pressing on nerves or anything and causing the pain?
Don't know how I'm going to get onto the hospital table for EPU tomorrow!
Huge hugs @MrsSMS what a terrible limbo to be in! If next week can't give you the positive news that we are all hoping for you then I hope at the very least, you can get some closure on this cycle!
@Hopeful37 fingers crossed for your 3 littles ones. Just remember it's often quality over quantity. When are you expecting a transfer?
Hope you're feeling ok @babybeanie and best of luck for your EPU. Hope you get some nice healthy eggs!!
How are you feeling @katt1011?
Hope you are ok considering @Billie2
Will be thinking of you tomorrow @Leachpeach and cant wait to see your nice big number! Good luck!!
AFM: I'm 6dp5dt today and have only 1.5days to go til I'll have my answer. I can't wait but in some ways I'm happy to just go on in my little bubble of hope where I don't have to face any outcomes!
Last edited by Annerley; 13-12-2015 at 19:42.
@MrsSMS - I feel for you I really do! I had some bleeding overnight. Saw FN this morning and we did another BT. My hcg is over 14K so that's fantastic ... But prog is down to 15. So they've said chances are mine is no longer viable either ... Am 5w4d ... Have to keep on the meds and test again in 4 days .. The waiting is agonizing ... Had a chem preg last cycle. Was picked up early ... But now 2 in a row ...
Sending huge hugs your way and hope that things pick up quickly for you .. Or you get some answers soon at least. It's a blinkin tough road!
It sucks @woof5105. Can you up your progesterone support. I would try to do it even if it means doing a sneaky extra one a day. I had my scan last week at 7weeks 6 days and got to see an empty sack. It was pretty awful. Am probably going to need to get a d and c this week if my body doesn't start to cooperate and end things naturally, I tell you what give me a BFN any day over what I have been going through the last 5 weeks. One positive to come out of it is I know I can get pregnant now after 6 straight BFN cycles it at least gives me hope for the future, I just won't be using my own ****ty eggs anymore.
I'm already on 3x 200mg pessaries a day ... Plus pregnyl ... FS and FN both said upping them won't make a difference ... And yes! Am starting to agree ... Make it BFN ... This bfp and then nothing a few weeks ago is seriously heart breaking.
@Annerley fingers crossed this is your turn, im doing ok af is bad this time so it may be a 4-5 day af haha instead of 3. Hopefully i will know tomorrow when my next transfer is.
@woof oh no i so hope its not a chemical again for you. Is there anything the doctors can do especially if you have to go through it all again. There has to be something to prevent this from happening again.
Good luck to ladies having epu or fet
Sorry to those who have had extreme bad news of chemicals or mc, i hope you are doing ok.
Afm omg i finally heard from my sil ugh i never hear from her or my brother but kids have been asking why they dont see their cousins i told them cause we dont need the best of everything like them n unlike them i know their **** stinks as much as ours. Ironically they son is my cousins sons bf i said must be nice considering we havent seen them in over 5 years. Ugh i hate family they dont even speak to my dad n my mum has to constantly text to get a reply with a date to see them if shes lucky she gets to see them twice a year yet they live 2 min away from her. She never gets her grandkids from them.
Sorry for the rant this time of year is meant to be about family and love i just hate hearing my boys ask about family they dont see due to no fault of theirs.
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