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    @Tahli stalking for updates today
    @Maxwellsmum I am so, so sorry. What a terrible day that must have been for you. I hope you get AF as soon as possible.
    @faithandhopellove that must be incredibly stressful for you, I hope further testing can ease you fears.
    @midnite01 yeah, I think you just lose faith in your own eggs. After 7 failures in a row I thought, even if there is a good one in there somewhere I could go another 7 without finding it. That tipped me over to using an egg donor.

    Tense times for everyone at the moment I think.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by midnite01 View Post
    Do any of you ladies get to the stage where you are over ivf and almost cant be bothered anymore? Maybe thats why im seriously considering the ed cycle overseas.
    Yes midnite I know this feeling well. I've been following on and keeping up with you all but sadness overcame me this week with a death in the family which then brought everyone together which then meant lots of baby talk from cousins and sister in law. It was excruciating. Ivf makes me feel like a freak that no one wants to be near for fear of saying the wrong thing. I want to stop but I want to be a mother more and I feel like I deserve to be for how hard I've worked at it. I'm now in a holding state for my private health to end their waiting period in April. The fees at Monash and with Pgd are frightening!! Still waiting to hear if my current clinic will transfer my two remaining frosties but they're taking their time. Waiting sucks!!!!

    Hello to all you lovely ladies. Thanks for keeping me going and not making me feel like a freak online at least 😀

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    I wanted to say thanks for your kind words of encouragement lastnight girls. It's still a negative this morning at 10.5dpo. @Corbes I hope you're onto something with the solid implanter idea rather than the firecracker of an early start I had last cycle. Like @Bongley 12dpo is my psychological turning point. Only 2 days to go.
    I found myself awake for hours lastnight thinking about what to do next. I'll keep testing through til Thursday 14dpo, then go for the 'It's all over Red Rover' blood test on Thursday afternoon while my son is at DC, get the results on Friday and come off the meds.
    I have 3 frozen embryos left in CT and have found myself running through all the different scenarios about what to do next...ranging from leaving them and trying with a new egg donor, to thawing 2, to thawing 3 and seeing which 2 are the best, to giving up because after transferring 5 donor embryos I still don't have an ongoing pregnancy.
    My next window of opportunity for a CT trip is 26th Jan which fits in cycle wise but most importantly my ex has asked if he can take my son away for the Oz Day long w.end. It would mean using the very last of my savings. Food for thought.

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    I'm so sorry for the death in your family @Caesardust and for the sadness in your heart. Huge hugs hun.
    @midnite01 To me it sounds like you're mentally ready for your donor egg journey. I hope your dh has a shift in mindset earlier for you. Obviously I mean that in the kindest way possible re where your dh is at on his own journey. Have you started looking at ed profiles?
    @Maxwellsmum my heart absolutely goes out to you. You must have woken up this morning feeling so awfully sad. Tender hugs.

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    @Tahli it sounds like you have lots of options still but that's what makes it so hard right?!? Sometimes you wish that someone could just tell you which option would yield the best result. Ivf is not that simple god damned it. When the savings are dwindling I would take the option that gives the most second chances. The fs always says to me it's a numbers game which I hold my hope on. Fingers crossed all of this is irrelevant as you have a late implanter x

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    A numbers game hey @Caesardust?! That brings me to the option I didn't dare type but was thinking about lastnight...thaw all 3 embryos and transfer them all!! Yep, the frustration is completely and utterly getting to me!!!!!
    @Blossom I hope you're ok Hun. You're awfully quiet. xx

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    @Maxwellsmum - sorry to hear your bad news. I hope you can get a resolution before Xmas.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    I wanted to say thanks for your kind words of encouragement lastnight girls. It's still a negative this morning at 10.5dpo. @Corbes I hope you're onto something with the solid implanter idea rather than the firecracker of an early start I had last cycle. Like @Bongley 12dpo is my psychological turning point. Only 2 days to go.
    I found myself awake for hours lastnight thinking about what to do next. I'll keep testing through til Thursday 14dpo, then go for the 'It's all over Red Rover' blood test on Thursday afternoon while my son is at DC, get the results on Friday and come off the meds.
    I have 3 frozen embryos left in CT and have found myself running through all the different scenarios about what to do next...ranging from leaving them and trying with a new egg donor, to thawing 2, to thawing 3 and seeing which 2 are the best, to giving up because after transferring 5 donor embryos I still don't have an ongoing pregnancy.
    My next window of opportunity for a CT trip is 26th Jan which fits in cycle wise but most importantly my ex has asked if he can take my son away for the Oz Day long w.end. It would mean using the very last of my savings. Food for thought.
    Ahhh @Tahli, you sound exactly like me - planning the next step before the current one is even over. It helps though to have plan b,c,d,or e in place, well in advance. It's a great coping mechanism I believe. I think this is your one though so I'll be stalking !

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    @faithandhopellove did you see the risk factor before they adjusted for your age? Also, did you find out what the nuchal fold thickness was? My fingers are crossed for you..

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    @Tahli were all the DE from the same donor? Did you use a proven donor? It is still very early honestly I have never gotten a BFP until 7dp 5dt but I understand everyone is different. I really hope you see those 2 lines in the next day or two. I also wanted to say thank you to everyone for your kind thoughts. I truly believe having the next plan does help when dealing with bad transfer results I also believe in the numbers game theory as well as changing the ingredients up as well which makes me think @Tahli that if you have tried 5 embryos from the same donor ( I wasn't sure if they were) then maybe a new donor could be something to think about if that is an option for you. I wasn't sure if that costs more money or how it really works. Anyway fingers crossed you won't even need to worry about going back until you want a sibling.

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