@midnite01 I was totally over IVF after my 5th cycle. I wanted a THB, no more waiting for scans, or 5 day reports or the 2WW only to get another BFN or chemical. I looked at DE in SA but DH said no to that. The US was expensive (although I found a clinic with a 90% success rate with donor embryo's) so we made that our plan B. We went into our last cycle feeling pretty pessimistic and I was a wreck before EPU. I even told DH I wanted to cancel. I guess it just goes to show that emotional state makes no difference to success.
As a post script I want to mention that our nuchal scan came back as high risk. I see my OB next week to determine what our next step is. I won't risk losing one or both with amniocentesis so I think it will be NIPT.