For what it's worth I think my intralipids were 200mls too. I was hoping for a scan today to check my lining but nup. When is your next scan to check your lining @Tahli?
@Bongley there's not one single day that goes by that I don't question having two embryos transferred for exactly the same reason. Only lastnight I was toying with the idea of going back to a single transfer with SD2s embryos. But I had two transferred last month and didn't end up with a single baby let alone twins!! Buuuut I totally get it, esp with one lively, cheeky, little boy already.
I only have the one lining scan. I could pay $85 and have another one on Friday, the day before I fly out, but I think it would add to my stress levels considerably. I'm at Monashs minimum for transfer and its not looking like I can do much about it at the moment so I'm just going to have to go with the flow.
Yeah, I think I would lose my mind with two. I did one of those silly facebook quizzes "How many children could you look after?" Came up with......
"You could look after no children!
Your free space is something you value highly and you're not yet ready for children. This could change in time. But even if it doesn't, you're still a wonderful person just as you are!"
Oh @Bongley you just had me laughing out loud on the oncology ward!! That's hilarious!!! I didn't even know quizzes like that existed. Now imagine making that decision as a single mum?!
I have two things whizzing around in my head...the fact that my FS excitedly wanted to transfer two of SD2s embryos on my first cycle in CT...and the fact that one of the other CT girls also just had 5 embryos last week and all were thawed, 3 transferred and no pregnancy.
It just highlights the extremes in possibilities...a possible high quality single embryo transfer or loosing 5 in one single cycle. It's all a roll of the dice isn't it.
Aaaand now that I'm up to my third trip to CT I feel like it's a bl~~dy long way to go for a single embryo transfer.
Sorry for the ramble!
Where's your head at for your precious final transfer?
Last edited by Tahli; 01-12-2015 at 16:13.
Tahli geeze imagine having 5 and then still not getting a BFP
I think I'm in a good space. Either it works and I'm up the duff and hooray or it doesn't and I'm ready to embrace the positive aspects. After all this I realise how very, very lucky we were. I'll be very sad for a while but ready to move on I think. I'll be f%cking shocked if this round works frankly. I'll have my answer in two weeks thank goodness.
Sounds like 2 is a good number for you! After everything you've been through I can understand taking that chance.
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