[QUOTE=Charlie74;8345145]Thanks girls.. Am better today.. Most definitely PMS.. I could feel it building up yesterday. Today I'm back to myself. Literally 5 minutes after posting last nite DP looked at me and said 'are you ok?'... And of course I burst into tears.. And 10 minutes later I was feeling ok again! Bleary red eyed but good! Sometimes I feel like a pot about to boil over & literally once I cry I'm good again. QUOTE]
There's something about those words "Are you ok?" When you're right on the brink they tend to push you over the edge. I react exactly the same way. Sometimes you really do just need to have a good cry and let it out. I don't know what it is, but I often find bottling these things up doesn't really help me cope in the long run. If I cry and get it out I can move forward. I'm really pleased you're feeling better today hon.
AFM, @Tahli I can sympathise. I'm feeling completely drained today too. I've had a quiet day today. Went to collect some eggs from a friend with the aim of baking tomorrow, watched a bit of tv, pottered about being useless. I really didn't achieve much at all No matter, that's what weekends are for, right?
Trying to gear myself up to cook tea. Tonight we're having home made chicken schnitzel and salad. Quite looking forward to it too, I'm a starvin' marvin today. I've been 'good' but it's not been easy!
[QUOTE=Blossom74;8345276]Blossom74 - totally agree! I had a meltdown last night before going to a work function of my DHs. Was over what to wear and it was all too much . Silly trigger point, but after my meltdown I got dressed and went to the function and felt much better!
Totally hear you ladies. I wonder why we bottle it all up. I've been in tears everyday since my last bfn always on my own. In the car, shower, bed etc. seems as soon as I think about being childless or my brothers baby on the way I have a meltdown. I commend you blossom for getting as much done as you do. I seem to only be able to manage work atm as I can absorb myself there. At home I can't be a$$ed doing anything. Thank goodness my dp does all the housework as he work shifts. I need to motivate myself!! All set for my birthday laparoscopy on Wednesday. If I get some answers maybe it will be a good birthday. I feel like DrNL was at least honest with me and said at least I'll know whether to keep trying, adopt or look forward to a life of sleep ins and wine. 5 transfers with no further testing from my clinic is negligent I reckon. I said to drNLs nurse my word for 2015 has been overwhelmed and I hope my 2016 word will be relieved. I'm so scared about how much all of what he talked about will be especially if it increases by 50% like they say. I will definitely have to give up then. Has anyone written a letter. Do you think it will make any difference??
On another note my skin has decided to revert back to a 14 year olds so I want to cover my head in a paper bag. Did anyone else have that side effect from coming off meds?
On your tummy?? Wtf??? Mind you I'd prefer that than my face!
Caesardust Yes, yes and yes. Did my last stim cycle in feb and I had a pizza face for months afterwards. Literally have not been like that since I was 16. Only just clearing up now... but I'm also back on stims. Hmmm.
Ah jeeze, "happy" birthday for wednesday, still I hope it helps, it did help me when I got it done.
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