Hi Julzgulz and Congratulations on your pregnancy!
The first time around can be so overwhelming when there's so much to think about and do, as well as grow a baby, so completely understandable if you're feeling overwhelmed and confused.
Firstly, you've definitely landed in the right spot for advice and support, as you can imagine thousands of women on here have been in your shoes, so there will always be someone who can offer kind words and support and sage advice. I would thoroughly recommend you join one of the DIG (Due in groups) on here, you will be able to chat with other women who are at the same stage of pregnancy such as yourself. (I'm not sure when you're due) but don't hesitate to ask if you're unsure where to find the DIG on here.
When you reach 5 posts on here, you will be able to send and receive pm's, as 'Once Upon a Time' kindly offered to do, so keep posting and you'll soon be able to do that.
Again, congratulations and welcome to Bubhub.