I'm 24+2 with my first. I'm trying to wrap my head around my different birth options, but finding it all so overwhelming.
I tried to bring DP into the conversation to get some support and a sounding board, get his impressions etc, but our discussions keep ending in an argument. The last thing he said was it's up to me and I need to work out what I want and what I'm comfortable with. He's been through a traumatic preterm birth with his ex, and I don't know if he wants to be part of this experience.
I moved to Perth from my hometown of Brisbane 2 years ago, and don't have any friends or family here that I can just talk with. Working full time and with the time difference, I don't get a chance to just call up my friends and family. I feel like I don't even know what to ask my midwife at my next appointment I'm that clueless.
It's all making me rather anxious and alone.
How did everyone make their decisions ?
Any experiences would be appreciated.