@Apples1234 I understand where you are coming from our 1st cycle we had 6 eggs all fertilise and grow til they were 8cells or day 3 but that was it they all stopped I have heart broken I started to think maybe we just aren't meant to have children together maybe we aren't meant to be. We had been trying for 5 years before we came to ivf.
we have been together since we were 16 we got married at 24 brought an house at 22 we are set up ready for this why wouldn't it happen. DH twin sister got pregnant first round of ivf.
Second round the clinic kept us up to date on how our embryos were going, the whole time I was worried as SIL was going for #2 at the same time. In the back of my mind I couldn't help but think is it ever going to happen for us. I got a BFN from that cycle but we managed to get them to grow we had 7 in the freezer.
Yesterday they popped one in I am hoping that this is the one! We have told no one from DH family and only my mum from mine I feel like there is so much pressure when everyone knows! I have always said I only want one child I don't mind girl or boy just a healthy baby.
I think you ladies that are doing the POAS tests are so brave I don't even want to take the call from FN after the blood test on the 7/12. I commend you ladies that have done multiple cycles you have so much strength!! After my BFN in sept I didn't think I could ever do this again. But it is the only way we will have a child together