Which I mentioned, in both posts I was a SAHM for 7 years...I've heard all the negative comments, trust me (not from my dh). That doesn't mean I need to like the 'being a sahm is a 24/7 job' argument....being a PARENT is a 24/7 job if you're involved in your kids lives. I'm no less of a parent now I work than what I was as a SAHM. And if the op wants to get through to her dh....arguing about who works the hardest isn't going to be the way to do it.
The first part of my post was aimed at you.
The part quoted was general