Im a clean freak .. I dust, vacuum, mop, wash (all before 9am )and iron every single day... I have dinner prepared and cook once dp gets home ..
The 4 older Kids shower before dinner .. dp will sometimes wash their dinner plates while I bath our 2 yr old .but he always helps wash up after our dinner. ..
I wash at night too and he always offers to help peg out the washing ..
On weekends he often offers to help me do the house work or he will cook dinner .. which is nice
We work well together and if he didn't want to help after work than I dont mind ..