So I tried an open cup. She let the milk run out of her mouth a lot and didn't really swallow but didn't get upset. I tried the medela calma again and she just pushes it out of her mouth with her tongue then gets annoyed as she knows milk is around but not the way she wants it. I also tried the avent teat again. I think I will persist with expressing 30ml a day and trying to give it to her. Someone has recommended the mimijumi bottle so I might get one of those.