You said yesterday that your DH contacted his advocate (who contacted hers) and the police, what has her response been?
Eta: if it does boil down to trips getting canceled, can't you still go on your own to see your family?
We discussed me seeing my family alone, but the trip was planned for H to meet my family before the baby is born- as that was my condition on us having kids, that he meet my parents first.
And I really don't want to travel that far, alone, at 29-31 weeks!
ETA: sorry just realised you may have meant what was the mother's response? She has refused to discuss it, even with her advocate.
Can your parents visit you?
I'm sorry, this is a very sucky state of affairs...
is this woman single? i thing shes very bitter and cut up about her ex moving on and now you're having a bub together. she feels left out in the cold and is being a b*tch in any way she can to spoil things for you.
she's obviously quite happy to use her own kids as pawns in her sick games to try and get at you both. I feel really bad for you, to have to deal with this, when pregnant, and not even be able to enjoy a well deserved break to see your family before bubs is born.
sod her and her stupid plans. why don't you just do everything in your power to make her life hell? she certainly enjoys doing it to you. I think you and your H go out of your ways far too much to accommodate her. she taking the **** and it's time to start setting some boundaries!
You sure there just wasn't some big misunderstanding about the dates?
Making her life hell would only come back to bite the kids.
As far as I am concerned, she can keep on doing what she does, and we will keep on being nice- the kids have noticed the difference, and will only notice more as they get older. I have no doubt they will see how much we do/put up with for their sakes.
She even said, "Oh I know you are away from X-Z BUT...."
ETA: and you're completely ignoring the UM thing, the refusal to discuss and the fact that the kids have told her they don't want to travel alone.
Last edited by DT75; 19-11-2015 at 10:15.
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