I told a few friends about IVF but that was it. There is a whole group of acquaintances who I am sure would love to have something new to gossip about but they are getting nothing from me.
On a sideline I met a lady when I was in Western Samoa years ago who was 60 with a four year old. No IVF there. I have seen their hospital. They have x-ray and that's it. No u/s. No fertility docs. She didn't look like she had money enough for that stuff anyway. I guess it does happen... but then someone wins the lottery each week too. It's just not my luck.