Sorry ladies, I've been reading along but putting in 15hr days at work so not able to post much.
Lots of talk about oe vs de, my only advice is you will know when the time comes what is the right decision. For what it's worth I have no regrets at all, this is my baby growing in my belly. Yep my mortgage has taken a hit, but it's only money. I grew up with nothing and I did ok, as long as we can put a roof over bubs head, feed them and live them, we'll do ok.
I'm also a worry wart and used to worry about where the money would come from, I learnt in my late 29's that somehow I find it, I sacrifice or manage to move things around till it works, so I don't worry about it now. Yep my lifestyle has changed, we were comfortable and I could shop without worrying about cost, and now I can't but I wouldn't change anything.
@Bongley sorry about your diagnosis but at least you have an answer now and will be throwing everything at this next transfer.
@JulieMalooley I'm so glad bubbas are doing well!
Hi to everyone else!