Good morning all,
@Corbes, I agree with everyone else's advice. Pulling and stretching feelings during pregnancy (especially in early pregnancy) are completely normal. It feels much like period cramps which come and go, and is just everything expanding to accommodate bubs.
@Tahli, my understanding is that your body has to return to 0 HCG prior to doing another transfer. Mine was 150 last week, and 4000+ the week before, so it does come down reasonably quickly. Mind you, it has now been 4 weeks since my D&C and for all I know I could still have HCG in my system. I refused my BT this week so who knows! Anyway, I think the aim of the game is to get back to square 1 and get your hormones right and uterine lining right before trying again.
I'm really sorry you're even having to think about this at all @Tahli. If our finances permit it, I would like to try another cycle early next year, but I am definitely wanting to see one or two natural cycles before then. I want everything to be full recovered before I go and transfer in another emby. I certainly don't want to waste one - they are so precious - by putting it in too early, into an environment that isn't ready to accept it. I fully understand the urge to want to try again as soon as possible, but I also think it's really important to try and heal both physically and emotionally before doing so. Hugs for you love, I fully understand how hard it is