@Tahli oh it's such a horribly hard time. The stress of waiting is just too much sometimes, especially under these circumstances. Well if one blastocyst looked stronger than the other, perhaps they both took and one has just given up the ghost. Or it could be nothing at all, as others have said we don't normally have the numbers that early, it could just be the embro/s settling in.
@Caesardust I've been to a public clinic and they were a heck of a lot more amenable. I don't know why they are being so useless. Surely a huge part of treating a patient is keeping them informed of the process Good news that 3 are still going however! Fingers crossed for tomorrow. I'm sure they would freeze any embryos that were viable, they do get paid for it after all, it's just subsidised.
AFM I have my endo biopsy tomorrow. That reminds me I better pack some panadeine in my work bag.....hopefully I can get a firm starting date for the next cycle.
good luck everyone