Um yeah being gay is not a free pass to constantly objectify somebody. To be honest it doesn't sound like she has friendship in mind at all! I would be distancing myself also, however I am super sensitive to those kinds of comments/actions.
It sounds like her gaydar is way off the mark the poor thing! All jokes aside if I were you I would flat out say "you know I'm not into women right?!" and I would then go one step further and say "I like being friends but let's not make things awkward by blurring lines".
I'm gay and have fortunately never hit on a straight girl before but with ones I'm not sure on I am definitely more subtle than that! She's brave lol
I'm straight and my friends and I talk like that to each other! So she could just be having a joke with you. I agree with the others that said just brush it off in a humorous way at first if you want to keep the friendship. The fact you haven't shut her down yet probably means she thinks you're okay with it and you're having a little joke together. Something like "you do know I'm straight, right?" actually works since she knows you know she knows you're straight! (That was complex! )
I was all ready to mention it last night but she wasn't at training.
Ive decided that if she does say something next time that I will just say something like 'That's enough of that thanks'. or 'Quit it please'. I wana keep it casual as I don't what her to think I don't want to me her friend.
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