@JulieMalooley how frightening for you. My sister had bleeding until about 16 weeks ( she never told me til afterwards) and my other sister thought she had a miscarriage ( was convinced she is a nurse as was so much blood) and she now has 6 month old who I cuddled today. Bleeding can be for many reasons but is nerve wracking. But a lot of times it turns out to be ok.
You don't have to go through with the stim Cycle with LB if you don't want to. See what Wazza says. If the advice is similar to Dr L/Dr M in terms of protocol and different drugs to try to improve quality, then you can decide who to go with.
If LB would implement the kind protocol that the others have advised you to do, then go with her, but if she wasn't prepared to try anything different and the others were, then maybe you might think of going with one of the other FS instead?? You have to go with the FS that you and your DH think will be able to help you the best that's my advice.
As for Wazza, who knows what he will say?? He's a really open book so you can ask him any questions you like. Maybe make a list with DH of the most important things you both want to know and how Wazza would go about achieving that for you?? Ask him what he would do different. He knows who Dr M/Dr L are so you can talk about how you've consulted with them and what they advised and see if he agrees. He won't be offended or anything like that. He no doubt knows who LB is too.
He will ask anything he wants/needs to know don't worry about that. He'll also tell you what he thinks is a good idea and what isn't and he'll most certainly tell you what his opinion is of the best way forward for you both
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Thanks once again. I have put a post on that page killer cells. You're wonderful. Thanks so much
Ok will be patient! Thanks again 😊😊❤️
Juliemalooley and faithandhopeandlove how scary for both of you. You see blood and you automatically think the worst. I know it is very easy for me to say to not stress as it is common, but please both think good thoughts. Juliemalooley was your ultrasound the day before internal? You have a lot of blood pumping through you at the moment and it could be your cervix's way of seeing "just leave me in peace for a bit".
@Summer your post made me cry. I am sorry you had that little breakdown. You will make a lovely mother and you will get there one way or the other. If you need more Freddo frogs let me know and I will send them up. We had been inundated with trick or treaters the lat few years and to be prepared, I bought a lot of Freddo's and little dairy milk bars and no kids turned up. I was secretly hoping only a few would come so there were some left over for me but I don't think I should be having 2 packets worth.
@Tahli I work in the industry and am really mad for you. You didn't need that stress. I am not sure what happened but it sounds like that maybe you booked online and when you put in your cc details, it took the money but missed being ticketed, therefore the booking was cancelled. I know travel agents can mess up and not do things on time, but they would have received a message your booking was cancelled before you arrived at the airport. It seems to be more of an online booking issue. The airline should have sorted it out and not made you buy a more expensive ticket. Unfortunately they will only refund you the cost of the original ticket not the new one. I know you don't want any stress, but at the airport for the return journey, I would go straight to the service desk, be calm and say that due to their system, you nearly missed an extremely important event, was now out of pocket a lot of money and that an upgrade to business class would be a good way of compensating.
Apples1234 yes the speckled result is your anti nuclear antibodies (ANA). I have a high ANA speckled too and of the 4 Drs I've seen, not one of them is concerned it will affect my pregnancy. They are treating me on an immune protocol regardless because I've never been tested for killer cells, but it hasn't made a dent in my ANA level and that doesn't seem to have been a problem so far. I am bleeding. Bit right now, but I don't think that's related. If my body was attacking bubs they wouldn't be growing so perfectly I believe. After many many unexplained non Implantations, this cycle being the first on this protocol, suddenly two implanted. That speaks volumes in my opinion about the immune protocol (prednisone, aspirin, clexane, intralipids). I'm still not convinced about the intralipids but doing them anyway.
@faithandhopellove that sounds exactly like what I had, red then brown and a little pain seemingly around one of my ovaries. Still a bit of old blood today but very little and hopefully that's the end of it. I don't believe in breakthrough bleeding when on IVF though, the huge amount of progesterone support would stop it I reckon. I hope you are ok, it is certainly scary stuff. We are not planning on going to ER unless something gets worse today, but I will get another scan maybe Thursday before I go spending another 500 on intralipids on Friday.
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@JulieMalooley how are things this morning. Thinking about you. @Tahli hoping you get to ct soon and you are winging yourself back on bfp airlines.
Afm we got up to watch the rugby final so chilling in bed while hubbie minds the toddler. Ive got my crinone in and hubby think you need to lie down for an hr so its a good chance to catch up on reading hehehehe. Hi and hugs to everyone else xxx
@Calypso no it was not internal. It was the first one ever that I've had where they didn't need the dildo cam as it was so clear just with abdominal scan. @Tahli, DP seems to be his usual unflappable self. He reckons it's nothing and is saying we shouldn't even bother having a scan as there's nothing that can be done anyway, and it will be a waste because everything will be fine.
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