Oh dear, I have been browsing some unschool facebook pages. In the interest of "children choose what they want to do or not do", one mother was saying her child needed 10 TEETH pulled out of her mouth, because 'we dont enforce teeth brushing'. I just think there are some things that kids are not equipped to make their own decisions about for their lives. They need some adult direction, surely. Education, and teeth brushing, are some things that if the child doesnt want to engage in, it's the adults job to enforce it!
ETA - there is also a lot of posts about nutrition. Someone who's child was obese because he was allowed to eat whatever he wanted, whenever he wanted - because who am I as the parent to restrict their own choice and autonomy - so the child lived off of chips, coke and lollies, and suprise; became obese. Many others like this - "I offer my child to choose whatever they eant and they choose candy for dinner. Why dont they choose vegetables?" Lol. Ohhh dear oh dear.