Maybe not the right category for this topic, but it has me feeling quite blue… I Keep hearing all these things about women who achieve orgasm quicker and have better orgasms during pregnancy, i'm 14 weeks pregnant and I can't seem to orgasm at all… I don't know why it's never been a problem for me before… But the lack of release along with all the pregnancy hormones is causing me to be extremely emotional which makes everybody around me uncomfortable… and I end up sitting alone wondering what the hell to do… my partner and I used to have a very active sex life however now that I'm pregnant he keeps saying that I am brittle or he feels like he's going to hurt me or the baby if we have sex.. I've reassured him that it's not going to hurt me or the baby and sex is completely fine during pregnancy,.... He says he knows this… He has other kids… I feel like it might be some sort of excuse, I don't know why, he doesn't mind it when I perform oral sex with him… and now I'm at the point where even doing that leaves me excited and wanting more and him not willing to engage in such acts… but now even when we do have sex, I just can't get myself to the point of orgasm… Do any of you have any advice? Anything would really help… this is my first pregnancy and I've only ever heard good things about sex during pregnancy... I don't know if this is normal..