after some advice /experiences etc ...
i have had 4 cycles so far, with 2 bfns,1 mmc and 1 chem preg.
I thought I still had 4 left on ice, but turns out only 3.
one is a 5 cell grade 2, and two 8 cell grade 2s.
we had a discussion with our doc today, and the decision we came to is to defrost the 5 cell and an 8 cell. If the 5 cell survives the thaw, implant both. If it doesn't survive, thaw the 2nd 8 cell and again do a double transfer.
the doc mentioned that transferring 2 doesn't increase the odds of getting pregnant in that they don't help each other out etc. but I am just wanting a bit of input from people that have transferred 2.
i am also getting some new blood panels done to see my hormone levels, as I am peri menopausal so we want to see if there is any chance we could cycle again and get any more eggs.
Otherwise will be looking for donor eggs, either known donor or international I think.