I have been with my husband for 10 years married for a few of those. We have a 1 year old and I have been diagnosed with post natal depression and ocd, both leads me to a path of negative and paranoid thinking. I accused my husband of cheating after discovering messages which eluded to him flirting and perhaps 'hooking up' (not sexual) with another woman while away for work.
We had a huge fight about this and he said I should leave if I don't trust him. So I decided to leave but wanted to take our daugther with me. He said no and forcebly grabbed me from our dining table and threw me on our bed. Later on when I was holding our daugther he squeeze me arms so hard so that I would let go of her. Both times have now lead me to have bruises on my arm.
When asked he said he didn't think I was mentally fit to look after our daugther and so he needed to get me away from her. Hence the above.
Long story short we 'made up' for the time being but I don't know if this is considered abuse or if he could be genuinely worried about our daugther.