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    Heavenblue, I wish I could come round and give you a hand. You have so much on your plate, and no one to take a bit of the load. hugs, maire.

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    @HeavenBlue that just absolutely sucks. I'm so sorry your DH is being an ***. I wish there was more I could say or do. I just don't understand how some people can be so oblivious to the suffering of those they profess to love - and totally understand your feelings of resignation too. Do what ever you have to do to get through the day - tv, treats, whatever works! Stuff the housework just try and get some rest if you can xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuperGranny View Post
    Heavenblue, I wish I could come round and give you a hand. You have so much on your plate, and no one to take a bit of the load. hugs, maire.
    I appreciate that SuperGranny. Thank you

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    Quote Originally Posted by binnielici View Post
    @HeavenBlue that just absolutely sucks. I'm so sorry your DH is being an ***. I wish there was more I could say or do. I just don't understand how some people can be so oblivious to the suffering of those they profess to love - and totally understand your feelings of resignation too. Do what ever you have to do to get through the day - tv, treats, whatever works! Stuff the housework just try and get some rest if you can xx
    Funny thing is, I really don't think he loves me anymore. He mustn't. You wouldn't be so ignorant of someone you apparently love. I try to do all the little things to show him I care but I get none of that in return. It's the only answer.

    But yes... I'm doing whatever I can to get through. But DS is having a rough morning so it's been a bit hard. Hopefully his nap helps that a little. This afternoon is a new battle.

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    Oh, @HeavenBlue, I'm so sorry your DH is being a jerk! My DH is usually pretty good at things, except tidying up after himself in the kitchen. And he usually steps up if I need him to. You're right, it makes a huge difference. He needs a smack up the back of the head. I wish I could come and help you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Dancer View Post
    Oh, @HeavenBlue, I'm so sorry your DH is being a jerk! My DH is usually pretty good at things, except tidying up after himself in the kitchen. And he usually steps up if I need him to. You're right, it makes a huge difference. He needs a smack up the back of the head. I wish I could come and help you!
    Help me smack him up the backside of the head?

    Perfect!

    Hahaha... In all seriousness though, thank you. How are you feeling today anyway?

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeavenBlue View Post
    Help me smack him up the backside of the head?

    Perfect!

    Hahaha... In all seriousness though, thank you. How are you feeling today anyway?
    Bahahahaha! Should have started a new paragraph. DS distracted me. Though would gladly help with whatever you need.

    Feeling somewhat better than yesterday, which is good, because DS is feeling worse. I was up with him for a couple of hours last night with a temp that wouldn't come down (during which time I told my DH off for "being a jerk" because he snapped at me unnecessarily. He then asked me to apologise which didn't end well). DS must have a really sore throat because it sounds just awful when he laughs, cries, coughs, etc, and he's refusing to eat.

    Any relief for you today?

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeavenBlue View Post
    Funny thing is, I really don't think he loves me anymore. He mustn't. You wouldn't be so ignorant of someone you apparently love. I try to do all the little things to show him I care but I get none of that in return. It's the only answer.

    But yes... I'm doing whatever I can to get through. But DS is having a rough morning so it's been a bit hard. Hopefully his nap helps that a little. This afternoon is a new battle.
    I totally empathise with your first paragraph. Every morning I make DH his coffee just the way he likes it. He has no idea how I have my coffee. I lay out his PJ's in the bathroom every night. I make sure the things he likes to eat are in the fridge/cupboard and on the menu plan. If we go to a cafe for breakfast I can order for him without even asking - he would not have a clue what I want despite being horribly predictable sigh .... So yes I understand feeling like you are unloved, not 'seen' by the person you are married to. With my DH though I know if I confronted him with these things he would be shocked and offended that I feel this way. He truly is oblivious and I've come to realise it is because he lacks empathy - his work makes this even worse.

    If you spoke to your DH about how you feel would he hear you? Would he listen. Two kids in the mix so it's worth trying, easier said than done I know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Dancer View Post
    Bahahahaha! Should have started a new paragraph. DS distracted me. Though would gladly help with whatever you need.

    Feeling somewhat better than yesterday, which is good, because DS is feeling worse. I was up with him for a couple of hours last night with a temp that wouldn't come down (during which time I told my DH off for "being a jerk" because he snapped at me unnecessarily. He then asked me to apologise which didn't end well). DS must have a really sore throat because it sounds just awful when he laughs, cries, coughs, etc, and he's refusing to eat.

    Any relief for you today?
    No! No need for a new paragraph, it was perfect. Gave me lovely giggle for the morning! I needed that!

    I'm glad you're on the up but poor DS! It's so horrible when they are so sick. And then having words with dh in between it all.... Sigh. Why can't it ever be easy? How long has the poor little thing been crook for?

    I'm no worse which is good news but I'm dreading that nightfall time when everything becomes more pronounced. That will be the real test of how I'm feeling today.


 

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