We will try for a 3rd at least. I'm not done I know I'm not.
part of me just wants to get it over and done with and be poor for a few years ( then be able to plan again) and another part wants to go back to work build on nest egg before going for it again ( and being poor again).
My mind is clouded and I need outside perspective.
Is it really a false economy me going back then off again? I mean if I earn y when on mat leave and x when at work the total still = xy regardless of what order it happens right?