@bib and @Blossom74 im just looking for that magic formula since i have the magic golden egg. Ive tried it all. Shopping resting going back to work and no luck. I haven't tried acupuncture pred aspirin combo though so maybe that will be my breakthrough. Just really nervous and scared about doing something wrong post transfer that will ruin my chances once again. Fx crossed i have a beautiful 8cell embryo for transfer tomorrow.
The only thing I didn't do was accupuncture & I was going to find a way to do it for the next (& what was going to be our final) Cycle/transfer. Thought it would help with stress if nothing else.
In saying that...on my last Cycle I was having regular massages done in the lead up to starting that Cycle right through to the night before transfer. I also listened to a guided meditation I downloaded all through the Cycle & 2WTorture. I chose a "theme song" as well that I would play daily to help keep me focused & calm so as to keep my anxiety under control as best as I could.
Wazza also recommends shagging before & after transfer if you feel up to it (not that it would've made any diff with us). He believes the sperm helps the lining or something like that but a Vag full of Crinone or Pessaries kind of kills the mood I reckon!!!😁
Omg. I've missed bucketloads. You guys really are prolific. I've skimmed a few. Remember none of our new posters names so I'll just say welcome ❤️ and if you're new - that's meant for you. I'm new too.
I think you have to just mirror your normal life as much as possible before and after transfer. So if you exercise a lot make sure you go for a light walk each day after transfer. If you don't just relax on the couch. Do acupuncture if it relaxes you but if you're already a relaxed person maybe it's not worth it.
Wishing you the best with your transfer luv.
P.S....My DD wasn't a perfectly graded emby. She was either the 5,6 or 7 cell that was transferred that morning and was graded "Average" but was really a "Very Good". The Embryologist had to grade all the emby's down one category because they weren't at the 8 cell stage yet. However, they weren't 72 hrs old at transfer either as I know what time my eggs were ICSI'd. Everything else regarding them was in the "Very Good" Category
Haha luv it @BlondeinBrisvegas i was thinking the same about crinone. Yes i think i shall make a playlist of songs tomorrow night after transfer and just play that whenever im in doubt. I remember meatloaf helped me give up smoking many years ago so maybe something else can get me utd. Lol thanks so much for your info and your patience.
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