sounds like a good group @Green lady. good luck for EPU on wednesday. I hope you get a nice set of quality eggs
Hmmm. This doesn't bode well....
I got a letter in the mail today from my Doctor, saying I had to ring as there was a "Recall" for my D&C.
I rang them and asked what that was, and they said there was a report through from the hospital and my Doctor had asked to see me.
I wonder what it could be? Nothing like a recall from your Doctor to throw your weekend into a panic....
Yep, the first appointment I could get was Monday at 10.30am.
oh about the embyro transfer, I mentioned we still had a frostie at genea when I went for my test today and the nurse gave me a card for the people who transfer the embryo over to rpa. she said they specialise on this - it's a genea card. I guess I need to speak to the FS/nursing team to co-ordinate a date with them then give them a call. (she said to call them, didn't mention the co-ordination, so maybe they sort that out too?) I said we might have a break and try in jan/feb as she confirmed it's ok to do FET after 45. she wasn't sure about IUI but said it's prob about the same as trying naturally. DP is out of town for this month's attempt so we'll prob have to try for dec.
@Corbes I hope you and your DH work things out. I'm sorry you're having to pay for it all too. sometimes my DP doesn't feel like it at the right time (he's been having anxiety attacks due to an ongoing work issue which affect everything). & other times he's just drunk too much or his depression is affecting him too much. then often he's ok later, outside the window. sometimes I wonder if he really wants the bub, but then he'll talk about how much he wants it later on. I have to keep explaining how it works, with the short window of time and trying every day/second day leading up to Ov. still not 100% sure how long Ov window lasts, eg is either morning+night ok - am guessing 24hours? so I think we prob 'miss' it sometimes when we try naturally. which is another reason having all the monitoring of levels helps in a cycle as I know they get the date/time right. (why I was thinking of IUI - to add the timing). he seems happy now that we're on a break, though he still wants to try the frostie. I'm hoping it's our take home bub. we almost tried it in march but my levels were all over the place and the cycle was cancelled, then my appendix blew up. which I think was lucky the cycle was cancelled as I don't think it would have survived the surgery/recovery. so I'm hoping it was saved then for a reason.
I hope so too, but I have a bad feeling about this, and I usually find my instinct is pretty spot on.
The thing that got me is instead of ringing, they sent a letter. Really unusual in itself. Plus, there was a slip attached which if I refuse to ring for an appointment, I have to sign and send back to remove myself from the recall.
Does anyone know what the possibilities might be? I feel like I need to prepare, but I don't know what to prepare myself for....
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