nice new name @Summer (ll)
BFN today gals. Think this ones a bust. I had a cry at work yesterday and came home early.
This is the turning point in my mind of 'we could actually have a baby' when we found out we had 3 PDG normal embryos 2 months ago to 'this is probably not going to work'
And before anyone says it, I know it's still 'early' and there may be a BFP at 13DPO or 14DPO but the odds are really slipping away and that hatching blastocyst really should have implanted and been pumping out HCG by now. It could also be a late implanter but meh, I've heard that one too many times. Very happy to be wrong this weekend but I think its time to plan for the next one.
After last months BFN I knew that we were going to be left in this situation of going down to the last embryo Just want it over and done with now so we can move on and stop getting my hopes up only to be ripped away every few weeks. I'll speak to my FS next week and see what he suggests we do, I suspect he will suggest a natural FET cycle. We have very limited funds by now so we just can't throw any more money after it.
Thanks for listening gals.
@Bongley Oh FFS's Luv!!!! I can understand why you feel so disheartened by it all!!!
I know you don't hold out any hope but I'm going to be everything, shovelling and praying like there's no tomorrow that those 2 lines come up tonight/tomorrow!!!
I think if this Cycle is a bust, maybe it's time to be investigating possible causes either in your oven/immune-wise before transferring your last embryo??? Might be worth you doing a basic immune protocol too Luv just in case if it's going to be your last shot??
@infinity888 and prayers being sent that all your follies are still plump and full with lovely eggies at this mornings scan/BT and EPU!!!
@Green lady Good Luck with scan/BT today Luv!! for lots of juicy follies for you!!!!
@Corbes Good Luck with your appointment this morning!!! Hoping this 2nd opinion FS has some new ideas for you going forward Luv!!
Hello to all the other Lovelies.............
@Bongley, oh honey, I'm so sorry. I'm not going to bang on about 'it's still early' because I know first hand that when you know in your heart something is wrong, you know for sure. I am so sorry this shot seems not to have worked for you.
This whole bl@@dy IVF caper just breaks my heart sometimes, and I feel for every single person on here when they try so hard and still haven't got their reward - myself included. Sending you massive hugs and even though you don't hold out much hope, I will still for a miracle for you love.
I am super pleased you still have one frozen emby left. You're not out of the game by a long shot! And I agree with @BIB, throw everything you have at it because you don't want to be left wondering. I'd definitely be jumping on the same immune protocols our dear JM did - perhaps you could talk to your FS about that when you next see him/her.
I am thinking of you @Bongley.
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