Hi guys, I have a 4 month old boy and up until recently my baby was a real mummy's boy, crying for anyone else who held him and settled only with me. I feel bad admitting this but I loved the special bond me and bubba shared, it made me feel loved and I felt like his favourite.
Recently it's all changed, he will settle for almost anyone and he doesn't seem to have any preference for me at all. The only preference he now shows is for his dad when he walks in from work. He gazes at him and smiles at him and clearly wants to be with dad.
I am glad he loves his dad, but I really really want to be my sons first preference with daddy being second. I don't know if this is bad feelings or not but I can't help my feelings. I am at home with our baby all day and do everything for him (hubby won't even change a nappy) and I wear him a lot, give him lots of attention etc. does our baby not prefer me? What can I do to turn it around?