His parents would think I was joking if I said something about DH being busy with his guitar. They totally think he's the golden boy and I'm a bit of a bossy witch. They're also old fuddy duddies who wouldn't even get the inference I don't think. And the OCD in me couldn't stand to have them visit with the house all grubby anyway, as nice as the idea sounds.
Yeah, I went totally nuts at him this afternoon....swearing and yelling and crying my eyes out. Crappy behaviour on my behalf but his response was to yell back and belittle me. It doesn't make him see how crap his behaviour is, just makes me out to be a postnatal nutcase.
He's definitely a lazy jerk and I'm sure there's an element of this that's about him feeling guilty about me working away and him being lazy, but he's too lazy to get up and fix the problem and too much of a jerk to admit it.