So I'm due with my 2nd early next year. My Grandma, 2 Aunts and a cousin will be visiting from overseas the month I am due, but staying with my parents who live 5 minutes away.
I've already told my Mum that I won't be able to spend much time with them, obviously since I'll have a newborn and adjusting to 2 kids, and most likely having a cesarean. She replied they don't expect me to visit them, they just want to visit me and spend lots of time with DD1 and the baby. I'm assuming they've told her this.
Now I'm worried they'll be expecting to come over to my place all day, every day. It's the type of thing my Mum's family would do, they have a problem with boundaries.
I think I need to establish some ground rules for when they are here. What is a reasonable timeframe for visits while they are here? I feel like if I say something like a couple of hours every second day they'd all get really offended but I don't want to feel overwhelmed.
So I'm just wondering what other's think would be a reasonable timeframe for overseas guests visiting you and your newborn.