The first was family daycare, he loved it but outgrew it and *we* felt it would be better to move him to a bigger daycare to ready him for school.
2nd daycare - he was there for only a few months before we pulled him out because the centre was crap. He came home sunburnt a few times and also had an empty water bottle at the end of every day in the blazing hot sun (amongst other things) we pulled him out because *we* didn't like the centre.
3rd daycare is where he is now.
I agree that it's no issue checking it out to see if he has ASD, that's not my issue. My main issues are that it feels like he's being targeted for no reason at all. Well for minor reasons. And I feel that mentioning autism is quite sudden and for unwarranted reasons.