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    Quote Originally Posted by harvs View Post
    A few posts back you alluded to the tragedies that can occur involving post partum women. I agree with you wholeheartedly, but I find this comment very worrying. Sometimes it's hard to tell how much your comments are dramatic and blowing off steam and how much they are deadly serious.
    I would never ever hurt my son i love him too much. I dont plan on hurting myself either but walking out isnt outside the realm of possibility

    Dh & i are having a talk tonight about where to go from here

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    Default How did you manage to get meds for anxiety??

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    Making excuses/catastrophising/roadblocks are all part of anxiety rearing its head. I want you to know I have been there. It took DH begging me to see someone and I eventually did. He had to take me. I could not go on my own. And once I did it eventually just became easier.
    I have as well.

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    I suffer from anxiety and depression. I see a psychologist weekly and am on meds. It's a daily struggle and so hard but you can do this. You are a strong woman. Please remember we are all here for you. Motherhood is wonderful but also very hard.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    I would never ever hurt my son i love him too much. I dont plan on hurting myself either but walking out isnt outside the realm of possibility

    Dh & i are having a talk tonight about where to go from here
    I'm so glad to hear that :-)

    I hope it all goes well...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Louise41 View Post
    . Motherhood is wonderful but also very hard.
    It's bloody hard even for those who don't have anxiety, have a hubby that helps, stable income etc. I don't know how those facing additional challenges do it. The only way I could imagine getting through would be to lean on anyone and everyone for a helping hand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heartstringz View Post
    I would never ever hurt my son i love him too much. I dont plan on hurting myself either but walking out isnt outside the realm of possibility

    Dh & i are having a talk tonight about where to go from here
    Your DH sounds like a good catch.. Let him help

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    How did your chat with DH go?

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    Hope you're doing ok today @heartstringz x

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    Im doing ok today.

    We decided i will see a psychologist at this stage & give that a red hot go. If that doesn't help ill see a psychiatrist & ask for medication

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    That's fantastic! I hope you feel better to have a plan, and it sounds like DH is backing you which is so important at this stage.
    Good on you seeking help 😊


 

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