@loislane2010 I agree however we have scheduled things during the week (sports) for the obvious physical activity but also to reduce computers - it's a fine balance to not over schedule but then not have them glued to electronics and for me that's my biggest issue. We don't do much in weekends in general. If i gave them full access to computer or iPad I wouldn't hear from them all day but I can't do that obviously so when they have to play that's when the whole I have nothing to do kicks in. I'm not crafty so it's like torture for me to do that with them and due to some health issues I'm restricted in my ability to play physical games so it's a vicious cycle.
Will take on board any suggestions though if more have some.