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    Default 5 Top Tips - Newborn

    The October Challenge (and a little bit of Sept seeing as we currently donthave one) - every day I will post a '5 top tips' topic

    so post your 5 top tips for dealing with a newborn.

    What would you tell your bestie is the most important things to remember


    1 - sleep is everything. Sleep as often as possible
    2 - it doesnt matter how bad your house looks. sleep anyway
    3 - breast is not always best. Is only if you can manage it
    4 - accept help when people offer
    5 - join bubhub

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    1. Sleep when you can, and put a note on the door saying so! And turn off your phone so
    people don't wake you.

    2. When people give you well meaning but outdated advice, just smile, nod and ignore it if it
    won't work for you. You know your baby better than anyone else.

    3. Trust your instincts. It can take a while to figure out what they want/need, but you'll get there.

    4. Be kind to yourself. We put so much pressure on ourselves to be the perfect mother, but
    there is no such thing. We all have good days and bad days and that's completely normal.
    So cherish the good days and forgive yourself for the bad.

    5. It's fine if you want to stay home. It's also fine if you want to go back to work. Do whatever
    works for your new family.

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    1. Sleep, sleep, sleep!

    2. Take at least 5 mins to yourself every day. I did not do this. I should've

    3. Trust yourself - ignore any 'advice' that feels wrong to you.

    4. If BF does not work then it is ok.

    5. Enjoy the snuggles.

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    1 Sleep When Baby sleeps
    2 Get your Husband to do the housework
    3 let others help and trust dad more he knows why to do
    4 Keep in contact with a trusted friend its good to talk to someone other then family
    5 just take it easy and dnt everything " by the book" your the mum

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    1. You can't hold a newborn too much!
    2. Sleep whenever you can.
    3. It's okay to feel overwhelmed. You and your baby are both new at this. Give yourself time.
    4. Housework can wait.
    5. Remember that you know your baby best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Californication View Post
    1. Sleep when you can, and put a note on the door saying so! And turn off your phone so
    people don't wake you.

    2. When people give you well meaning but outdated advice, just smile, nod and ignore it if it
    won't work for you. You know your baby better than anyone else.

    3. Trust your instincts. It can take a while to figure out what they want/need, but you'll get there.

    4. Be kind to yourself. We put so much pressure on ourselves to be the perfect mother, but
    there is no such thing. We all have good days and bad days and that's completely normal.
    So cherish the good days and forgive yourself for the bad.

    5. It's fine if you want to stay home. It's also fine if you want to go back to work. Do whatever
    works for your new family.
    Pretty much this!


 

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