@Outoftime it is a bit strange isnt it?! I felt like i was signing a new car contract the very first time we did ivf. Its probably a good idea that you are sending your photo etc to the agency to help you. They may know a girl who isnt one the database but ready to donate again. I picked a girl who looked very much like what my sister looked like when she was smaller. Then once i got the details of her i found out we share the same birthday! Weird coincidence! When we picked our donor there where quite a few that met our criteria but when looking last month there were not as many girls on there. Im sure they go through peaks and troughs with the donors.