Yes agree with others re the not dealing with the crying. Please get some help in this because as they get older it gets worse i'm sorry to say. it's a whole new ballgame. Nip it in the bud before he completely controls you and you cannot control him. If i gave my child food and he threw it i'd take it away and let him cry. if i gave him food and he wanted mine too bad. If he threw it at me he would get a loud and clear ''NO'' and i'd put him in his cot for 5 mins to cry it out there. get yourself an ipod and put music on if you don't want to hear his crying.