To me, s.ex is a private act of either love or just pleasure with my husband and I would prefer to not be 'sharing' it with others during the time.
Eta: not all of my comment is directed at you HD ☺️
Last edited by HollyGolightly81; 20-09-2015 at 18:25.
There's some great advice here OP so hopefully you feel ok coming back again☺️. I personally wouldn't have a huge issue with DH telling me something was turning him off, in fact in the first year of our relationship he did tell me he didn't like something I was doing that I felt I 'needed' to do to and I quickly stopped. It took about two more bedroom romps before I figured out another way that was actually better. So really he helped me out by speaking up. 😉
LOL at the Nutella, I won't ask hehe
It's interesting isn't it, I guess personality type must play a part too, because like I said, my brother would have felt exactly the same as you! We grew up in the same house and feel totally different about that sort of thing.
However, I once had my Dad make a comment about how they had to 'wait until we were finished to be able to get some sleep, so could we tone it down next time' and my ex Mother in Law plus my now Father in Law walk in on us at other times - all of those times I was MORTIFIED and have never gotten over it!! Lol
I asked my DH last night and he said he'd be very uncomfortable when we have kids if they did hear us. So there you go, I'm glad I saw this thread and asked, now at least he'll never have to come to BH and ask everyone what to do about me!
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