emski72 what are your options if it's a BFN? You still have frosties... Would you ever consider another donor or is that out of the question?
No this is it for us... DH doesn't want to go again even for frosties, although we paid for freezing they are only 3ab ... I'm having weight loss surgery and returning to work in Jan if it's negative. You can't get pregnant for 18 months after that and by that time I'll be 45.
@Bongley well thats just ****ty news really. Its so tough. The lack of control over the situation drives me crazy. Im sending you hugs. So much hope for your nxt cycle hang in there. When everything in the world says give up and then someone whispers one more time
@kyrsta i was offered councilling to, but i dont know how you move forward without alot of time. Also my last fs he didnt even call me. I had to wait 3 wks for him to call post me leaving a msg every 3 days or so. Then basically he says its got to be my fault my egg quality etc. I then asked about pgd testing he said a waste of time as i only get about 3-5 embryos then day 5 usualy only 3. He said we like 5. I feel like he wasnt interested at all tbh.
That he couldn't help me. I asked about bondi protocol and he said it wasnt legal. Then i asked a few more qs and he was also useless so i gave up and walked away. I was so mad but then i found new clinic and you ladies and well things are certainly changed. This time i made a plan for if not successful to. Not sure it will work haha
@emski fx and baby dust to you lovely i really hope you get your bfp even if its a late arvo one instead of morning. I hear sometimes that happens.
Yes Bib you are a fountain of support and knowledge. Thankyou thankyou
@ leyshoja hope all is well over there
Not legal? What the? Yep all is well here but I've been up most of the night. Darn jetlag
sorry to hear today's results Bongley. I hope you can get started on your next cycle quickly
Emski, give it a few more days - could still be too early?
thanks BiB. I can feel something happening, even though it's early days still. strangely I don't have a pain in my left ovary (doesn't hurt too much, but I can usually feel something there) which I usually do for all the other cycles & pms. so not sure if it's yet to come or a different cycle altogether compared to previous, or if it's like my first cycle and only one side is working. will find out soon enough with the friday scans I guess. I hope it's all on track anyway.
& leyshoja, I vote for the day of resting, eating and shopping rather than work!
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